Wednesday, January 29, 2014























A good girl knows when she could have done better.

Her realization and reflection within herself is the only ‘punishment’ that she needs.  She will more soon punish herself before I would.

It is my job to rescue her from her self-inflicted punishment and mental torture she would inflict upon herself in fear of disappointing me.

I will not allow her to languish in this place for long, for this is a dangerous place for a little girl to play.  Once she realizes the err in her ways, I will bring her into my lap and give her the safety and security she so greatly longs for.
This is what most don’t realize. We need that clarity. Those reminders. That is why those words are so powerful…

Good girl.

We need structure. Only a lazy Dom would never provide rules, guidance, and a system to follow through with rewards and punishment.

And when we’ve done something wrong you need to have that mental control to stop us from continuing that internal degradation.

There’s a difference between condoning the act and making the girl feel like she is worthless. Perfect your craft ladies and gentlemen.

A Dom that cares is a Dom that punishes.